fidelity/loyalty.. any in this world.. to me

I will share something that for me is a sensible topic... (and well.. nobody reads my blog so.. haha) (yes.. you read my blog.. and thanks) (=p) is about fidelity/loyalty

fidelity definetion:

1. Faithfulness to obligations, duties, or observances.

2. Exact correspondence with fact or with a given quality, condition, or event; accuracy.

3. Fidelity implies the unfailing fulfillment of one's duties and obligations and strict adherence to vows or promises: fidelity to one's spouse.


Loyalty definetion:

1. Loyalty implies a steadfast and devoted attachment that is not easily turned aside: loyalty to an oath; loyalty to one's family.

Mom's dad.. (grandfather) (**he doesn't deserve that word, because for me is not worthy to him)

he got marry with my grandma (favorite grandma) a pic here =D

Maria and Julio

 i remember.. when we were children with my siblings

we liked to visit my mom's grandphas.. such a nice times those...  since i was i don't remember pretty good but, like 5  or something like that .. we stayed at their home also with my uncles.. and i really enjoy that time

my grandma 'tortiaba' obviously tortillas (very famous in guatemala) 

(these are like yellow)

anyways.. we liked to eat those   and  sometimes i helped her with my sis (of course, mine were awfuuuuuul! i can't do that.. even that i'm guatemalan.. such embarrased =S) (=D) (but i still eat them haha) 

well.. but in those times I noticed the feelings of my grandma (althought she hide us those things.. because we were just her littles grandchildren..) (and still hide us when she cries) (at least to me) and then i discovered why she acted in that way.. because there wasn't loyalty from my mom's dad... that's was so hard for my grandma.. when i was 11 i decided don't talk to my mom's dad .. it was so obviously and my parents talk with me.. that stuff.. blah.. then i had to talk to him and years laters the things change.. but this year he became so sick.. and cut a foot's toe.. my grandma (the best grandma) care of him in all that.. and then he again did the same.. how could a person do that when is seeing the reality, his wife care of him, work for him, was there in the hospital every day for 1 month and then check every day that, paid for that, still doing a lot of things, and take him with to check that in the hospital, and he just cheating on her.. ??? how can someone do that? (i don't talk more with my mom's dad and limit my greetings to good morning/afternoon/night) and my grandma.. wanted kill herself.. so hard ha? 

then ,  i knew about my aunt's husband did the same.. he left them (my two cousins and my aunt) (my favorite cousins by the way) . well...  any call anything.. (she's very attached to our family) so we tried to help her in that difficult sittuation.. then he came back..(4 months later) and last november, he left. Sorry, but for me, He's not a man. He is a basura of person.  since that.. i don't talk with him ..   again.. there wasn't loyalty from him..

i mean.. i don't care about the life of others persons.. althought they are my family.. the people who i love! the people who really interest me.. the people for whom I could give my life.. and if someone hurts them.... is just..

for me.. infidelity is in many marrieges also in friendships.. .. well.. that's the reality.. i don't know what they think.. if some day i get marry.. I will be loyal, and hope return that..

for me.. ''perfect love'' exists.. but ''perfect persons'' there's any..